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Revised Edition: Therapeutic Metaphors for Children and the Child Within.

Revised edition: Therapeutic Metaphors for Children and the Child Within Available on Amazon.com & www.selfesteemshop.com
Joyce C. Mills and Richard J. Crowley
 
Winner of the 1988 Clark Vincent Award for an “outstanding contributi on to the profession through a literary work,” and translated into four languages, the original editi on of Therapeuti c Metaphors for Children and the Child Within was considered a groundbreaking additi on to the fi eld of child and adolescent psychotherapy. Since its publicati on in 1986, this book is the fi rst, and to this day, the only book that solely intertwines the extraordinary foundati onal teachings and philosophies of Milton H. Erickson and creati ve healing approaches for children and adolescents. With resiliency at its core, this revision now brings forward important topics related to neurobiology and cultural value of metaphor and play, along with fresh case examples and creati ve acti viti es to a new generati on of mental health, educati on, and coaching professionals.
   

Butterfly Wisdom

Transformation Kit based on both the spiritual teachings and scientific principles and the butterfly’s metamorphosis. A symbol of transformation, butterflies entrance and embrace the hearts of those who seek personal growth and change.

 

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CD – Sammy the Elephant & Mr. Camel

Sammy the Elephant & Mr. Camel by Joyce Mills, Ph. D Bedtime Stories for Children. Overcome Bedwetting and Discover Self-Appreciation.

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Gentle Willow: A Story for Children about Dying

EXCITING NEWS… currently being translated into Spanish. The story was written for children who may not survive their illness. This comforting story will also help all children to deal with the death of friends, family members, or even pets. It is a loving and tender tale that addresses our feelings of sadness, love, disbelief, and anger. It provides children, and those who read the story with them, a “transformational” way of viewing death and dying. This profound story is ultimately one of joy and hope. Its message is one readers will not soon forget. “Dr. Mills’ book, Gentle Willow, is a beautiful, sensitive, and hope-filled metaphor which emphasizes transformation and the healing power of love. I will use it with my child patients and recommend it to their families to read together many times.” –Geraldine Yarne, M.D. “I find Dr. Mills’ Gentle Willow a clear and comforting message for children and their families who have to consider and deal with a life threatening illness. I think the tenderness coupled with reality is a unique blend which will comfort all who read this beautiful book.” –Neal G. Sutherland, M.D. F.A.C. Director, Mahelona Hospice Service, Mahelona Hospital Cancer Care Coordinator, G.N. Wilcox Memorial Hospital, Kauai HI

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Little Tree: A story for Children with Serious Medical Problems

In addition to the physical toll experienced by children with serious medical problems, there are usually emotional difficulties that are harder to see and even harder to ease. And when a child is afraid or confused, feels hopeless and helpless, he or she naturally looks to a parent for comfort. But how can a parent, often overwhelmed by similar feelings, offer solace? Little Tree provides a place to which both parent and child can turn for help. Sensitively written and charmingly illustrated, Little Tree brings to life a healing metaphor so powerful that its message of inspiration will be remembered long after the book is closed. “When I was four years old, I was badly burned and spent a long time in the hospital…Had such a book been offered to me when I was a child, I know I would not have suffered the emotional scars I have carried from that experience.” –Violet Oaklander, Ph.D. Child & Adolescent Psychotherapist, Santa Barbara, CA. “Let Little Tree help you help the child who is coping with illness…and don’t be surprised if you too feel its soothing, soulful message.” –Arnold H. Zukow, M.D. Former Chief of Pediatrics Tarzana Medical Center, CA.

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Reconnecting to the Magic of Life

A tapestry of healing stories and practical steppingstones – spiritual vitamins that inspire our natural abilities to rekindle joy and embrace change. ‘Reconnecting’ has been translated into French and Portuguese.

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“Reconnecting to the Magic of Life is a poignant, funny, sometimes painful journey shared with us by an author who risks reaching deep down inside herself to tell a story – a story that she hopes will inspire us to tell our own….Joyce shows us how to unearth our own resources by providing stories and experiences that can inspire vision and the ability to soar in our ever changing world.” ~~ Excerpted from the Foreword by Carl A. Hammerschlag, M.D. author of The Dancing Healers and Theft of the Spirit. Winner of 1998 National Caring Award.

“Reconnecting to the Magic of Life is a wonderful book filled with insightful metaphors and practical steppingstones to help us to face the fears in our lives and reconnect to the magical medicine of faith.” ~~ Jack Canfield, Co-author of CHICKEN SOUP FOR THE SOUL

“Reconnecting to the Magic of Life is full of the magic of stories and communicates very well their place in our lives today. All of us experience hurricanes in our lives and Joyce shows us that the magic of joy and healing is there if we just choose to look for it.” ~~ Barbara Harris: Editor in Chief, Shape Magazine

“This book can be a beautiful resource for those who want to rejoice in and learn from their afflictions and difficulties.” ~~ Bernie Siegel, M.D., author of Prescriptions for Living

“To read this heart-warming book is to be enlightened and uplifted. Intelligent, thought-provoking, lyrical, and laced with a gentle sense of humor, Reconnecting to the Magic of Life helps us to do just that. The author’s stories are our stories: we see ourselves in them, and through them we see ways to face and resolve dilemmas we may currently be experiencing. Do yourself a favor and make the time to read and re-read this book. It will change your life — for the better.” ~~ Sam Horn, Author of Tongue Fu and Concrete Confidence.

“A book that everyone seeking to shed fear and find faith must read.” ~~ Arun Gandhi, President of M.K. Gandhi Insititute for Nonviolence.

“As I read Reconnecting to the Magic of Life, I found myself transported to the locations and experiences described in this excellent, inspiring book. Using ‘teaching tales,’ Joyce Mills shares experiences from her own journey of healing and empowerment-of becoming who she is today-as well as stories from people she has met, loved, and worked with along the way. For people interested in how we move through problems with creativity, optimism and a sense of master, this is a delicious, generous, and wise book.” ~~ Nancy J. Napier, MFCC, Author of Sacred Practices for Conscious Living.

Book Review: The Honolulu Advertiser – Saturday, May 20, 2000 Section: Island Life – Words & Music – Column: Spiritual Soundbites: Inner bliss and insightful sprites

“Joyce C. Mills is a storyteller, writer, speaker and therapist with a particular interest in the use of metaphor, story and art in psychological healing. In 1992, with their children grown and a yen for a simpler lifestyle, she and her husband, Eddie, moved from Los Angeles to Kauai with a small budget and big dreams. That was 10 days before Hurricane Iniki devastated the island. As 200-mph winds tore at the roof of the high school where they were sheltering, Joyce and Eddie huddled with others under a cafeteria table. She began telling Eddie a story about a dream she had that illustrated for her the need to have faith in spite of fear. Later Mills came to believe that we all endure the devastation of “hurricanes” in our lives and can survive them with the help of faith–and story lessons. This warmly written book is composed of stories followed by exercises designed to personalize the message of each of the tales. Many are real-life experiences; some are traditional tales from indigenous cultures, including that of Hawaii. People are always giving Mills stories. Her sensitivity and ability to see into these stories inspire us to look more deeply into the stories we hear — and tell. Reading these stories — aloud, perhaps, to friends or family — and performing the creative exercises (many are art projects that sound quite enjoyable) would, indeed, help you “reconnect to the magic of life.” ~~ Ann M. Sato, Honolulu Advertiser.

Book Review: The Milton H. Erickson Foundation Newsletter; Vol. 20. NO. 2

“Joyce Mills, Ph.D., does in Reconnecting to the Magic of Life, what Julia Cameron did in The Artist’s Way. Reading this book feels like spending beautiful time with a learned friend who integrates stories and ceremonies from many cultures including Hawaiian, Native American and Jewish. Where Julia Cameron uses the tasks of writing to enhance daily creativity, Mills utilizes storytelling and active play “Steppingstones” that can be tangible, three-dimensional objects to hold in your hand or images created for the heart. She instills an attitude of looking daily for magical moments with people and nature. “Where you stand you pray” encapsulates her beautiful in-the-moment style and direction of life and the work she does with clients. Easily this book could have been called, Transitions to the Magic of Life as Mills embodies Milton H. Erickson’s utilization principle through storytelling and metaphor. Her specialty is viewing difficult life transitions as opportunities for “Steppingstones” into greater love, creativity and depth of compassion for our relationships and selves. Poignant, loving stories are shared, such as the death or illness of a loved one, natural disasters, coming to creative terms of raising a mentally or physically challenged child, moving 3000 miles away to make your dreams come true, facing personal rejection and more. The metaphor of a butterfly’s life particularly hit home. There are four stages of a butterfly’s transformation: the Egg, the Caterpillar, the Chrysalis (Cocoon) and the Emerging Butterfly. Last year, my husband and I bought a house by the sea adjacent to a nationally designated estuary. As is my practice, I name our homes. This one is called, “Cocoon de Luz” which means cocoon of light in Spanish. It is a place we nurture what Mills calls “imaginal discs.” This is a biological term describing cells that are genetically encrypted to propel the butterfly’s transition from the chrysalis stage to the emerging butterfly, if all the conditions are right. I would imagine if butterflies have documented “imaginal discs,” then surely we humans do, too. As is the case with Mills, all great teachers seem to have the ability to make tangible a means of helping people uniquely identify and move from a boxed-in chrysalis stage to emerging as a butterfly. Her stories will make you laugh, cry and think. Without a doubt, the most touching story was at the very end, “The Banana Kiss.” I suppose you will have to read this joyful book to the last page to find out what it is, or perhaps find it on her web site.” ~~ Reviewed by Kathryn L. Rossi, Ph.D. Los Osos, California.

Book Review: By Dan Hays, Statesman Journal, Sunday, March 25, 2001

“Reconnecting to the Magic of Life,” by Joyce C. Mills, Ph.D. Imaginal Press, Kekaha,Hawaii; 2000; 236 pages; trade paperback; ISBN 0-9673280-0-4.

“Joyce C. Mills has two valuable skills that merge perfectly. She is an experienced marriage and family therapist with a Ph.D. in psychology, and she is an expert storyteller. She understands the deep truth to be found in metaphor and traditional storytelling. She respects the cultures and sacred beliefs of all peoples. “Reconnecting to the Magic of Life” is, in a word, accessible. There is no “New Age” language, no “psycho-babble.” What Mills provides here is a means to examine your own life and find ways to make it better. Much better. Downright exciting, in fact. She does this by leading the reader through the experience of others and through the accumulated wisdom of many cultures. She does this with practical, east-to-understand language. This is a book that can (and should) be read, and used, in easy stages, at each readers’ own chosen pace. Mills’ advice is dead-on because she has not only helped her clients, she also has been through literal and figurative storms herself. What she has to say deals with life as we all live it. An investment in this book could permanently change your life for the better.” ~~ Reviewed by Dan Hays, Statesman Journal.

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Restocking Your Shelves

A wonderful process about how to fill yourself when you’re feeling empty. A perfect gift for yourself, or for a friend or loved one who needs to focus on themselves and recapture hope and life balance.

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Sammy the Elephant and Mr. Camel

EXCITING NEWS! Now being translated into Korean. ‘Sammy’ is a delightful story that children and their parents can appreciate on two levels: It can help children overcome the problem of bedwetting, while it enhances the self-esteem of children of all ages.

 

Book Review: The Honolulu Advertiser – Sunday, June 18, 2000 OHANA: Family – Health – Community – Section D “LESSONS ON LIFE” “Kaua’i therapist’s books teach children about tough topics… Coping with death is hard enough. Then you have to explain it to a child. But Joyce C. Mills, a motivational speaker and licensed marriage and family therapist on Kaua’i, has found a heart-warming way to communicate the complex issues of death and serious medical conditions to children. Her books help parents help their children understand through colorful characters and simple story plots. “I use storytelling for healing,” Mills said. “Little Tree: A Story for Children With Serious Medical Problems” tells about a tree that learns to deal with losing two branches during a storm. “Gentle Willow: A story About Dying” is about Gentle Willow, which becomes too sick for tree wizards to heal. They teach Willow’s friends that love will ease her pain. “Sammy the Elephant & Mr. Camel,” teaches children self-confidence and patience to overcome bed-wetting.” ~~ Catherine E. Toth, Honolulu Advertiser.

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Spiritual Vitamins®

Based on her bestselling book, Reconnecting to the Magic of Life, join internationally renowned storyteller and healer Dr. Joyce Mills as she shares her multicultural experiences through healing stories she calls “Spiritual Vitamins®” so that you can once again reawaken and invigorate that joyful, playful, creative spirit within, and reconnect to the Magic in your own life NOW.

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StoryPlay® Therapy Demonstration

Dr. Joyce Mills and her eight-year old acting assistant Carley, demonstrates approaches and theories inherent in the StoryPlay® model of therapy. This culturally sensitive and multi-sensory model utilizes metaphors, storytelling, expressive arts, and play, along with the principles of Ericksonian hypnotherapy and Indigenous teachings for healing and well-being. Along with introducing viewers to the StoryPlay® Center, this DVD will show Carley using the Inner Resource Drawing technique to deal with a bad dream. Indirect suggestion will be utilized by Dr. Mills to enhance Carley’s sense of empowerment and self-esteem. Interaction between Carley and Dr. Mills continues throughout the various interchanges including sand play. Approximately 40 minutes.

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The Princess Principle

Women Helping Women Discover Their Royal Spirit The Princess Principle A Holiday Special for Love, Inspiration, and Healing I am honored to be one of the eighteen women who co-authored this very special book. Among the many stories of challenge, change, inspiration, faith, and hope appearing in this book, is my story: Whispers from God.

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